— and therefore this had periodically been the situation over several years — the relationship not any longer sensed healthy in my situation. It wasn’t sufficient any longer I endured from time to time didn’t, in fact, seem accidental that he was gregarious and deep and sensitive and generous and funny and spiritual — because the poor treatment. Especially, the ways that I became being mistreated seemed deliberately made to assist him feel much better about himself. For decades.
To phrase it differently, whether or not generally infrequent, the mistreatment seemed purposeful, habitual, along with been occurring for a lengthy, number of years. Continue reading “Sooner or later, though, after having a period that is sustained i merely couldn’t keep ignoring the feeling that I became being gaslighted and treated unfairly”